10 Erogenous zones you didn’t know you had

Be honest — we all have our little bedroom routine. Maybe your heavy petting hotspots are inspired by the time you spent under the bleachers in high school. Maybe you just know what you like. Either way, you’re missing out on some steamy action if you don’t pay attention to these little-known erogenous zones.

There’s some good news and some bad news about erogenous zones. Ultra-sensitive women are believed to have countless erogenous zones, or pleasure zones, all over their bodies. Many times, men are given the “shaft” because of the mistaken belief that the male erogenous zone lies only in the pants. Thankfully, research has debunked this myth. (This research also says that no one thinks feet are sexy, but more on that later.)

Tantalizing erogenous zones are as unique as the person you’re knocking bootswith — you never know what will turn your partner on until you try:

1. Ears

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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JokerSmokerMidnightToker confesses on Jezebel After Midnight, “Holy crap, right behind my ear by my hairline does it for me. Just simply breathing there could pretty much get me off.”

2. Eyes

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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Like many women, you may have gotten to the point where sexy foreplay with your man centers on one main body part. If you’re stuck in handjob hell, Jack P. Anderson of Reddit offers his encouragement, “Don’t forget that most men have a huge erogenous zone in our eyes. No, I don’t mean jam your finger in his eye, I mean that we are very turned on by visuals”

And women can be, too!

3. Feet

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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Sucking on toes isn’t just for the freaky — ladies, don’t knock it ’til you’ve tried it. Letting a guy lick your (clean) feet can turn from awkward to strangely erotic as you relax and enjoy the show. In “4 Body Parts She Wishes You’d Touch” for Men’s Health, sex expert and She Comes First author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., has an insider tip to make toe-sucking a little less weird. Kerner advises incorporating licking and sucking into a relaxing foot massage, using the mouth only 20 percent of the time to “minimize the oddness potential.”

4. Inner thigh

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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If even reading this gives you the shivers, ask your partner to tackle this erogenous zone with the lightest touch. According to Health24, stroking, licking and kissing the soft inner thigh is “highly arousing” for a woman.

5. Lower stomach

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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Kerner recommends the lower stomach as a perfect lead into red-hot foreplay. He tells Woman’s Day, “The area of the abdomen between the navel and pelvis is a fun area to tantalize, and as blood flows to the pelvis and sexual tension gathers, it’s a good area to simulate. By going from genitals to other areas and then back again you will develop sexual tension throughout the body.”

6. Underarm

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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A light, sexy touch just underneath the arm where it joins the chest has been known to drive men wild. After ears and feet, Dr. Oz lists the underarms among his “3 Hidden Erogenous Zones.”

7. Pubes

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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In Woman: Her Sex and Love Life, the mons, or the area where pubic hair grows, is called one of the strongest “love-generating” erogenous zones, along with the vulva. Sadly, this pleasure center is often ignored on the way to the main event.

8. Scalp

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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Think about how good it feels to get your hair brushed after a blowout at the salon. Now think about how easy it would be to bring someone to the brink during foreplay by gently massaging their scalp. SultrySex Talk to Seduce Any Lover author and sexual health guru Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., tells Men’s Fitness that a pre-sex head massage can release oxytocin to increase pleasure during the act.

9. Spine

These unexpected erogenous zones will get you hot in 30 seconds flat

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When the women of Reddit were asked what erogenous zone men most often overlook, Dandelioness was quick to reply, “Shoulders, spine, anywhere on my back drives me wild. Also, my hip bones. Mmm!”

10. The back door

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As if you need a reason to explore your “exit only” orifice during sexy time, Ilana of Broad City nails it, “Nose, vagina, butthole. If God didn’t want us to put our fingers there, why did she make them all perfectly finger-sized?”

 

STRESSED? HAVE AN ORGASM

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There is one thing standing between my being an anxiety-fueled hot mess and a productive ladyboss: an orgasm.

While most people see sex (and the hot pursuit of multiple orgasms) as a recreational activity or a weekend luxury, I see it as a daily necessity. It’s my inexpensive and ridiculously fun alternative to popping Xanax.

 

Cheaper alternative to prozac

In my 20s, as I struggled to find myself and come to terms with finding a “real job” in the middle of the Great Recession, anxiety became my new normal. In my 30s, migraines became a weekly ritual that crippled me for days at a time.

Traditional doctors told me it was a normal part of getting old. They suggested trying a cocktail of mood-altering drugs. Even at my most fatalistic, I couldn’t accept that my only option was a pile of pills (and frankly, I was too broke to afford them).

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Anxiety is expensive

Fortunately, a naturopathic doctor echoed what I was reading on the internet: that lifestyle and diet could transform the way you feel. I slowly changed everything, eating a vegan diet, going to daily yoga classes and meditating for an hour every morning. It was sheer bliss. I was at one with the everything. I was totally chill.

Unfortunately, all my time and money were spent on not being anxious. God forbid I had to work late and skip a yoga class or that my friends were meeting at Otto’s for pizza and I had to choose between social time and quell-my-nerves quiet time.

My personal crusade became the priority over being a good friend, and I became sort of a jerk about my lifestyle. Daily yoga became two yoga classes an evening, and eating healthy became hours spent alone in the kitchen making the perfect kale salad.

While being healthy and fit helped alleviate my anxiety, being a fanatic made my anxiety worse.

 

Curing anxiety with a One Night Stand

The unexpected cure to anxiety came disguised as a great Tinder date turnedIntimate One Night Stand.

We kept up the relationship mostly because it included an unusual amount of morning sex. Days that started with one (or four) orgasms turned out to be more productive and enjoyable. Of course I still felt anxiety, but it was proportional and appropriate anxiety considering I was dealing with the usual stresses of managing family drama, starting my own business and being in a new relationship.

When the relationship ended, I kept up the practice of morning sex. It was an easy way to manage anxiety and an orgasm a day seemed to keep my headaches away. I know you won’t simply trust my personal experience, so here’s the research to show that I’m not the only one orgasming my way to wellness.

 

Trust the science

In a study conducted in 2013, a group of German social scientists found that 60 percent of migraine sufferers and 33 percent of cluster headache sufferers experienced relief while engaging in sexual intercourse. The endorphins released during sex can function as natural painkillers, and these brilliant studies declared that “having an orgasm in any way, shape, or form will help” those suffering through a headache. Ironic for all who have used headaches as an excuse to avoid sex.

Studies done on sex and anxiety have found that sex with a partner lowered the blood pressure of test subjects engaging in stressful activities. Sex releases oxytocin, “the love hormone,” which can be be calming and help build relationships.

 

Test the theory

I tested the theory myself in a 30-day practice. Committing to starting each day withmulti-orgasmic sex (whether someone else was involved or not), I experienced many of the benefits that yoga and exercise provided, but in just a few minutes. Sex done right can be very efficient. Of course, I did this all in the name of science.

It’s a practice that I’ve continued for years. Daily morning sex makes me feel less anxious in general, but it has replaced Tylenol and booze for medicating stressful situations. Before making a big life decision, I have sex to clear my mind. If I have a headache, sex alleviates it, and in most cases cures it completely.

Orgasms may be the fastest, cheapest and most effective cure I’ve found. I’ve started faking headaches just to give myself an excuse to have a few.

STRESSED? HAVE AN ORGASM

11 clitoris facts you’ll think about the next time you have sex

I spoke with relationship coach and sex educator Dawn Serra to understand the ins and outs of the clitoral pleasure bomb, and the facts she shared might just surprise you. At worst, you get to spend five minutes reading about your clitoris. How can you lose?

1. It gets an erection

Even though the clitoris is tucked away from view, it grows erect when a woman is aroused. “It’s made of erectile tissue, and it engorges with blood like a penis,” said Serra.

2. It’s a lot larger than you think

Don’t let the external nub of the clitoris fool you — it’s actually much larger and more complicated than you’d think. “Most people don’t realize that the clitoris is actually about the same size as penis,” she said. It’s about the size of a medium zucchini.

3. It’s normal for it to look different

There’s no such thing as a “normal” clitoris, because all women are shaped differently. Serra explained that some are large, small, protruding or hidden, but they all do the same job. However, it has been said that the distance from vagina to clitoris can impact your ability to orgasm (see number seven).

4. It has one near-universal truth

“Dry fingers and [sex] toys on a clitoris don’t usually feel good,” said Serra. If you and your partner want a happy clitoris and there isn’t enough natural fluid to make a wet environment, always use lube.

5. It’s Greek

Have you ever wondered where the word “clitoris” came from? According to Serra, the root of the word is the Greek word for “key.” As in, the key to a woman’s orgasm.

6. It has a better orgasm than a penis does (take that, men)

“Both the penis and clitoris are full of incredibly sensitive nerve endings,” said Serra. “However, the nerve endings in the penis are spread out over a much larger area while most of the nerve endings are concentrated in a more intense area in the clitoris.” The concentration of nerve endings can spell out stronger sensations than even the penis can muster.

7. Its distance from the vaginal opening has everything to do with your orgasm

Not size, but distance. Serra explained that the size and placement of your clitoris can affect sexual pleasure. “The distance between your vaginal opening and the size of your clitoris can greatly impact pleasure during penis-in-vagina intercourse,” she said. For those whose clitoris is further away from the vaginal opening, you may need to experiment with toys or other stimulation for a fabulous orgasm.

8. Penetration isn’t always its favorite game

Speaking of penetration, penis-in-vagina sex isn’t usually the best for clitoral stimulation. “Most women can’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, because the penis may miss the clitoris entirely,” said Serra.

9. It’s shaped like a four-legged animal, seriously

“Your clitoris is a massive network of swollen, tingly pleasure,” said Serra. She explained that some sex educators call the clitoris a four-legged animal, because that’s exactly what the network of clitoral structures look like within your pelvic floor.

10. You’re not broken if it takes a while

Don’t let anyone tell you that your orgasm should happen quickly — your clitoris is a slow-moving machine. “Remember that it takes, on average, 20-25 minutes of stimulation and foreplay before a woman is fully aroused,” Serra said. Some women find that they even need 45 minutes of clitoral stimulation before they’re aroused for intercourse.

11. Its arousal patterns change, like the weather

Unlike men, who have fairly consistent arousal patterns, clitoral arousal changes according to the time of the month, stress levels and even hydration and nutrition levels. “The way you experience pleasure and arousal can change,” she concluded. “Communicate, and have a sense of adventure about it all.”

25 Super-Honest Anal Sex Tips From Someone Who Loves It

It’s time to let go of the fear and embrace anal — here’s how

While anal sex is definitely more out there than it used to be, it still isn’t exactly mainstream yet. Despite the fact that we’ve been experiencing a sexual revolution of sorts over the past couple of decades and feel more comfortable discussing acts that were previously taboo, the term “anal sex” is often still met with a cringe. Yup, war stories heard from friends have led many people to declare that hole an “exit only” zone.

But on the other hand, it seems that a ton of people are doing it: A review conducted on anal in 2010 confirmed that up to 40 percent of people have tried it at least once. But for every female we’ve heard of attempting anal sex, I also know at least half a dozen women who refuse to ever do it because of some awful anecdote or another. Typically it starts with a clueless boyfriend trying to shove it in, hoping that his partner will enjoy the experience — only to have the event in in trauma and pain. How’s a girl ever supposed to give anal sex another try when it feels that bad the first time?

I’ve been lucky enough to have the opposite encounters with anal sex. The first time I did it was with a steady boyfriend who happened to be experienced in getting women comfortable with butt stuff. I’d even have fun, he promised. A little lube, some coaching and a lot of talking about it later, I was no longer an anal sex virgin. And I even enjoyed it!

Since then, it’s become something that I order off the menu once in a while. Although I do have to seriously be in the mood for it, I’ve had plenty of orgasms during anal sex. Recently, I even had a pretty powerful orgasm with anal-only stimulation (meaning, he wasn’t touching any other part of my body).

This would all be perfectly fine behind closed doors, but I was pretty shocked to see an episode of The Mindy Project with some pretty negative (and unrealistic) things to say about anal sex. In “I Slipped,” Mindy’s boyfriend Danny tries the surprise approach and she is, of course, shocked. When she goes to her friend Peter for advice, he gives her a few tips on sex positions — before admitting that no woman ever will enjoy butt action. The show doesn’t go on to correct this sexist remark, as Mindy has to take a heavy sedative later on to give it another try.

In light of this seriously damaging view, we decided to give you a few tips on how you actually can enjoy anal sex. And no, it doesn’t make you a perv to own your sexuality.

1. Don’t go straight for penetration. First and foremost, invest time in the foreplay. You should be highly aroused before going there, and having an orgasm (or three) beforehand never hurt either.

2. A glass of wine and romance can help. Don’t just decide to do it and go for it. While you don’t want to drink so much that you get too numb, a drink or two to relax may be just what you both need.

3. Try getting to know yourself first. Just as with any good sex, trying something yourself first may help you relax. Try gently massaging the outer opening of your anus next time you are masturbating.

4. Yes, you might feel really naughty. We all know that this is a bit of a taboo subject, and it’s OK to feel a bit weird, dirty or uncomfortable doing it. It’s natural, but it’s also 100 percent natural to experiment.

5. It’s a mess. Dark sheets help. Yes, we’re talking about your butt and things can get a little messy. If you’re shy or scared, use dark sheets to keep things from getting too weird looking later.

6. External stimulation at first. Just as when you tried it yourself, have your partner start by gently massaging the outside of the anus. Start slow and have him pause when you start to feel funny.

7. Be sure to stock up on lube. The most important part is to have good lube that you trust, and be sure to use it on both yourself and on him for maximum ease. Water-based lubricants work great.

8. The rules about using condoms. Yes, you must use a condom. The most important thing to keep in mind, though, is that you absolutely must switch condoms in between vaginal and anal penetration.

9. Relax, but yes it might hurt a bit. You’re reading this because you don’t want it to hurt, right? Well, I promise it’ll be OK but yes, it might hurt a bit at the start. The key is to pause as you need to.

10. Get ready to take full control. This one is key, OK? You, ladies, are the ones that need to be in control. This is a different experience for you, and you need to gently guide him in, not the other way around.

11. Double the pleasure stimulation. One of the surefire ways to enjoy the experience is to simultaneously be receiving, ahem, additional stimulation. Have him use his other hand to rub your clit or, once you’re really into it, use a vibrator either on your clitoris or for vaginal penetration.

12. No need to get an enema or wax. You don’t need to get an enema (ew) or get a wax back there. While you certainly can if you want to, it’s not a must to enjoy the experience.

13. Make sure you practice your breathing. One of the most essential things I’ve learned in my, well, practice is that relaxed breathing is key. When your man is about to make the grand entrance, so to speak, inhale a deep breath and then slowly breathe out as he enters.

 14. Start with a position you can relax in. Some people prefer doggy style, and knees turned in can open the hips and take pressure off the sphincter muscle. However, many women prefer to lie flat on their backs with a pillow under the butt to start. Try whatever way makes you feel most comfortable.

15. You can try starting with sex toys. An easy way to start is by having your man start with a little penetration, either during sex or cunnilingus, using a small or bullet vibrator (turned off, if that’s easier). A finger works fine, too, and should be used to stretch you out slowly before the penis gets involved.

16. Be open to having an orgasm. Yes, an anal sex orgasm is possible! The female cul-de-sac (the sensitive area on the lower wall of the vagina) makes one possible without other stimulation. You can also have an orgasm if you are having anal sex and he is simultaneously stimulating your clitoris or vagina.

17. What it feels like when he starts. Look, there’s no way to put this nicely. When he begins to slide in the head of his penis, you need to exhale, relax and push out as if you are using the restroom. The pressure from his penis and the different sensations will probably make it feel, at least at first, as if you indeed are using the restroom. Relax. You’re not. Your nerve endings are tricking you. Have him stop just after the head is in, and give yourself a few minutes to get used to the discomfort and pain.

18. Eat fiber. You’ll basically feel really full. With the note above, it’s probably good to mention that there is a small chance that you will have leftover feces in your anal canal. Eating a fiber-rich diet always helps, but don’t be afraid if this happens. It’s natural, and yes, a bit gross.

19. It’s OK to start really, really slow. Just after he is in, have him slowly (very slowly!) rock back and forth. Allow about five to 10 minutes for your muscles to start loosening up and for that weird “wait, am I pooping?” moment to subside.

20. Remember what this is really about. This isn’t about you fulfilling some sort of fantasy. This is about your mutual enjoyment, so focus on yourself as much as on him. He needs to understand and be patient until you’re comfortable to keep going.

21. Bad experiences happen because he’s too eager. Another reason why you need to be in control? Simply going in fast or having vigorous anal sex is exactly why women get injured and have bad experiences. If he’s not good at controlling himself, lie on the side so that you can stop him with your hands and he can have easier access to stimulating your clitoris.

22. Have him talk you through the discomfort. It’s important to keep the lines of communication open throughout this process. Make sure he is constantly checking in on how you’re feeling (especially at the start) and make sure you’re honest about how you’re feeling. If you’ve gone far enough for tonight, that’s OK too. There’s nothing wrong with not getting to the finish line just yet. You can try some of the early stuff, and pause. Remember, take it slow. We’re not in a rush here.

23. You’ll might need baby wipes. Just saying. Keep baby wipes nearby in case you do have an incident with leftover feces. Have them by the bed so that he can quickly grab one and clean up when he pulls out.

24. Let him be attentive and communicative. You should both be communicating before, during and after the act about your feelings on it. Be open and understanding to his needs, but demand the same.

25. In the end, it’s OK if it’s not for you. But yay if it is! Give yourself points for trying something new, and don’t hesitate to try it a few times if the first time you just weren’t feeling it. While it may not be my favorite thing on the menu, a good time once in a while can be pure magic.

 

How To Get Her In The Mood For Sex – The Best Aphrodisiac In The World (It’s Not What You Think)

When most people think of aphrodisiacs, they tend to think of foods that help get you in the mood for sex.

Now, as promised in the article title – you are about to discover the very best aphrodisiac in the world.

BUT… it’s not what you think because it’s not a food.

I mean sure – I could tell you ten foods that I know are powerful aphrodisiacs (berries, coconut oil and Maca Powder spring to mind straight away) – but those foods are nowhere near as powerful as what I’m about to share with you.

In fact – the aphrodisiac I’m about to tell you about is so powerful for women, that if you use it with your woman, she will want to have sex with you every day.

Does that sound good?

Does that sound like something every man wants?

Well, I know you answered “YES” to those questions because every man answers yes to those questions.

So… I guess I had better tell you what this magical aphrodisiac is. Here goes…

The Best Aphrodisiac (For Women) In The Entire World Is…

  • Incredible sex.

There you go. Now you know what the best aphrodisiac in the world is.

I am being totally, one hundred per cent serious when I say that if you give your woman ORGASMS – lots and lots of intense, wild, screaming orgasms and you do it EVERY TIME you take her to the bedroom… your woman will want to have sex with you almost every single day (and sometimes more than once).

Right now I know that you are probably thinking very carefully and trying to work out if what I have just told you is correct.

Well, let me tell you – you have two options right now.

1. Go out and find ten women who are all being given MULTIPLE ORGASMS by their man every time they have sex and ask them the following questions:

“How often do you want sex?”

“Do you find it easy to get in the mood for sex?”

“Why do you want so much sex?”

Now I’m not stupid, so I do see the problem with this approach. The problem being that you probably don’t want to go out and ask a ton of women about their sex lives. And I totally get that.

So…

Let me tell you what they’d say because I have asked many women those kinds of questions. Here is what they would tell you:

– When you ask them how often they want sex… they’d say very often (like virtually every day).

– When you ask them if they find it easy to get in the mood for sex…. they’d answer “yes.”

– When you ask them why they want so much sex… They’d tell you it’s because the sex is so great when they have it

Now do you see how this works?

Remember, only women who were getting great sex and having lots of orgasms with their man would answer those questions as I’ve just described.

But, as you and I just agreed – you don’t really want to go out asking lots of random women about their sex lives.

So – as I told you… there is a second way to prove to yourself that great sex is the best aphrodisiac in the world and the best way to make your women want to get really “naughty” with you every single day.

Here is that second way:

2. Start giving your women great sex

Now you may think that is easier said than done, so right now – I’ll give you some TIPS that you must use to give your woman great sex:

What Every Woman Wants In The Bedroom And How To Give Her Earth-Shattering Orgasms:

– Be sexually confident and lead your woman because all good women like a man who leads

– Talk dirty to your woman because for women, sex is very mental and dirty talk is a HUGE TURN ON (shame most guys are too scared to try it)

– Make the sex different every time because your woman does not want things to become predictable in the bedroom

– Give her ORGASMS. Give her lots and lots of orgasms. One orgasm is not enough when you take your woman to the bedroom. Instead, you must give her clitoral, vaginal, multiple and maybe even squirting orgasms.

When you do all that (which is quite easy to do once you know how)… you will have it confirmed for you – great sex is the best aphrodisiac in the world for a woman.

And the best part is… Once you are giving your woman great sex and you know that great sex is the best way to get your woman in the mood – you will be able to just DO IT. As in, have wonderful sex with your woman, happy in the knowledge that she’ll always want it.

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Is ‘porn addiction’ a real thing?

A video series by actor Terry Crews detailing his struggles with pornography has been watched by millions over the past few weeks – but is porn really addictive?

Crews called his three-part video series Dirty Little Secrets. It’s a frank account of his use of porn, which he says started when he was just 12 years old. The first instalment in his series has been viewed more than three million times, and has attracted thousands of comments.

Crews, a former American football player now better known for his TV and film roles, recounts in detail how he used to spend hours looking at porn.

“Pornography really messed up my life in a lot of ways,” he says. “If day turns into nights, and you are still watching, you’ve probably got a problem. And that was me.”

And he admits his addiction almost cost him his relationship with his wife, the gospel singer Rebecca King-Crews, from whom he temporarily separated. Thousands on Facebook applauded Crews for his honesty.

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Others reacted by sharing their own experiences with sexual addiction. One user wrote: “I have wrestled for years – YEARS – with pornography. I am grateful today to say that I have a very specific sobriety date and I have stayed clean for some time now.”


However, the very idea of “porn addiction” is controversial. It’s not a disorder listed in the latest edition of Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, the “bible of psychiatry” issued by the American Psychiatric Association. Many experts say the brains of people watching porn don’t function in the same ways as the brains of, say, drug users, although the evidence is somewhat contradictory on this point. In one study, University of Cambridge researchers performed brain scans on 19 men watching porn, and the same reward centres of the brain were activated as when addicts see their drug of choice.

Nicole Prause, CEO of brain research company Liberos and formerly a researcher at the University of California Los Angeles, says that porn use shouldn’t be lumped in with drug and alcohol addiction.

“In the case of porn addictions, the brain looks similar to other addictions but only up to a point and then it diverges. When you look at porn, you get increases in learning and reward… but you don’t see some of the other hallmarks,” she told BBC Trending radio.

“In other addictions such as gambling, when you see a cue, for people who have a problem, the brain is more responsive. In the case of porn, with people who say they have problems, their responsiveness is decreased.”

Prause says the brain science means that porn is not addictive according to current models, and that treating it as an addiction can be counter-productive.

But calling porn non-addictive is no comfort to the thousands who talk about their struggles with pornography online. One such group on Reddit, r/NoFap (“fap” is slang for “masturbate”) has more than 170,000 followers, making it as popular as Reddit boards (aka subreddits) devoted to beer and Grand Theft Auto.

Many users of the forum – which is associated with a website of the same name – detail their intense struggles with their porn obsessions, and pledge not to use pornography or masturbate for a certain period of time. Tom (not his real name) is a teacher in the US Midwest. He told Trending that his obsession with porn began at a young age, and took a toll on his marriage.

“You’ve probably heard a saying that porn is great but it doesn’t compare to the real thing,” he says. “When you’re addicted to porn, you’ll feel the opposite. Sex is great, but it doesn’t compare to porn.”

At one point, Tom says, there were weeks when he spent hours every night looking at porn.

“I had trouble getting aroused with my wife, just because it wasn’t enough any more,” he says. Whatever scientists might say, Tom feels he’s addicted to porn – as do many others on the Reddit forum. He’s been trying to stop watching it for two years, and has gone as long as 90 days, but he says he still struggles to stop entirely.

 

Female Sexuality – Here’s What To Do If Your Woman Isn’t Having As Much Sex With You As You’d Like

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In this article, we’re going to take a look at a certain aspect of FEMALE SEXUALITY that will be of interest to you if you are a man who likes SEX. Specifically, we are going to talk about what to do if your woman isn’t having as much sex with you as you’d like.

In other words, we are going to look at the main factors that affect your woman’s SEX-DRIVE and I’ll also share some SEXUAL TIPS with you that you can use to skyrocket your woman’s sex-drive in just a few days.

First of all, let’s talk about how the majority of sexual relationships work…

For most men, there is a constant battle with their women over sex. Simply put, most men would like more sex. But, most men have a problem because they do not know how to make their women as interested in sex as they are.

This leads many men to think that women are the less sexual sex.

Here’s a FACT for you — women are the more sexual sex. BUT, they need the right man to bring all that sexuality out of them.

If you want to bring out your woman’s really wild, sexual side and make her want just as much sex as you do, read on very carefully because I’m about to show you how to INCREASE your woman’s SEX-DRIVE in a way that very few men know how to do…

Are you interested in quickly and easily making your woman want to have sex with you whenever you want?

Good.

In that case, let’s proceed…

How To Rapidly Increase Your Woman’s Sex-Drive

1. Be A REAL Man

What do I mean when I say be a real man?

Here’s what…

Real men understand that women are sexually submissive. Therefore, real men are SEXUALLY DOMINANT. They take control and LEAD their women in the bedroom.

Real men do not ask or beg for sex. Instead, they instigate the sex and their women follow.

You must do the same if you want to get your woman wanting to have sex with you all the time.

2. Give Your Woman Great Sex

The reason why most women are bored of the sex with their men is because their men give them really boring sex.

The simplest way to drive your woman’s sex drive through the roof is to give her GREAT SEX.

To give her great sex, the kind of sex that she will become ADDICTED to, you have to give her ORGASMS. And not just clitoral orgasms — give her vaginal and multiple orgasms too.

If you give her squirting orgasms and anal orgasms, that’d be even better.

Do that and your woman will want just as much sex as you and your relationship will INSTANTLY IMPROVE.

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Which Is More Important? – Better Sex Vs Amount Of Sex

Do you feel pressured because your partner wants more sex than you? Do you feel neglected because your partner refuses to make love as often as you want to? If this sounds familiar, you are definitely not alone. In fact practically any couple who has been together for any real length of time experience different level of sexual desire.

However sexual incompatibility need not mean the end of an otherwise good relationship. If you are willing to reassess your attitudes, negotiate your sexual needs and talk about your sex lives in an honest and respectful way, you can reclaim the intimacy and closeness that is weakening in your relationship.

How serious is the low libido problem?

One survey revealed that 33.4% of women and 15.5% of men reported lack of sexual interest. Though losing interest in sex may not be as common an occurrence for men as it is for women, but when men lose interest in sex, it scares them a lot more because their masculinity is so linked to their sexuality.

Loss of libido also makes men more likely to be unhappy about the rest of their lives than it does for women. Only 23% of men with loss of libido say they still feel very happy about life in general versus 46% of women.

Libido loss does not usually happen suddenly. It is a gradual process. When most relationships first begin there is high degree of passion and sexual frequency. Sex often happens effortlessly and spontaneously and desire feels mutual due to the newness of discovering one another as well as the newness of the relationship. After about 18 months, this new-found excitement and intrigue begins to wane and different sexual patterns can start to emerge. It can feel confusing and disheartening and you may question whether you are sexually compatible or if you still love your partner.

Desire fluctuates for a variety of reasons. Stress, fatigue, depression, performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, certain types of medication and ill-health can all contribute to problems. Hormonal changes can cause loss of libido and any underlying resentment or anger towards your partner will also interfere with your motivation to be intimate.

What to avoid?

One of the most damaging mistakes you can do is to blame one another for the different levels of sexual interest. Often the person with the lower sex drive is being targeted as the main cause of the problem. This can cause the accused person to get defensive and this can lead to greater sexual frustration.

How to face up to low libido

An important step is to acknowledge that both of you are different people with different levels of desire. After all, if your desires to eat, sleep, socialize, or exercise is unlikely to be perfectly matched with your partner’s, the same can also happen to your sex drive. Both also need to take responsibility for addressing this issue and making the necessary changes and adjustments.

It can be a bit embarrassing to talk about your sex lives and to clarify with your partner about what turn you on and what do not, but it is critical in re-establishing and maintaining a satisfying sex life. Couples experiencing desire discrepancy are encouraged to negotiate their likes and dislikes or to look for ways to compromise. Do not compare your sex life to anyone else or what you see in porn. What matters most is what is right for you as a couple.

In dealing with marital anger as a cause of low libido, you can either consider couples therapy or a real heart-to-heart talk. But in the meantime, it may be possible to jump-start your sex life. How to do it?

Well, just do it! A common misconception about sex is that we should get into the mood first before we do it. However the professional view is that if we keep waiting for the desire to come, some of us would never have sex again. It is sometimes important to just have sex even if you are not in the mood. Once you start, desire and arousal often follow. Do not let the time between sex drags on for too long.

Of course, it is most important that this has to happen under the situation when mutual feelings of kindness and respect already exist in the relationship. In this way you will be able to be open to your partner and experience sex as an act of love rather than a performance or just going through the motion.

It is also important to shift our attitudes towards sex by treating it as not just erections, orgasms and penetration and. Instead it should be regarded as a source of pleasure and intimacy. In meeting each other’s needs, you have to accept that you may get less sex than you ideally like and have to look for other ways to feel emotionally and physically close.

The bottom-line here is not about getting more sex, but getting better. Frequency should not be the sole measure of libido. Feelings count too. How you feel about the whole lovemaking process should be the true measure of whether your libido is healthy.

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Erotic massage Bucharest – top salons in town

In Bucharest erotic massage services are very popular. Many people apply for this type of services to solve the lack of tenderness and eroticism.

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Usually people have a wrong impression, thinking that this service involves sexual contact, but in reality both the masseuse and the client are prohibited from offering, receiving and demand comprehensive sexual services. Before embarking on this kind of services you should know that you will not get sex but you get privacy, relaxation, erotic massage and completions techniques that do not include sex.

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When you arrive at a massage parlor you will be greeted by beautiful masseuses dressed in sexy gowns, dresses, lingerie or swimwear.

You have to choose the masseuse that you most like by attitude, physics, smile, each one of you according to personal criteria. Then, once chosen the masseuse you should decide on the type of massage you want.

You can choose between Swedish massage, Thai massage, relaxation massage, sports massage, hot stone massage, massage in whirlpool, four hands massage, couples massage, swing, erotic massage or lingam massage. Besides all this, according to your fantasies and available masseuses, they can meet up your fantasies of domination verbal or physical and other fetish. After choosing the desired masseuse in the room she will give up her clothes and she will remain nude, all nude she will execute all types of massage above mentioned. If you do not want nudity please specify this.

Erotic massage and lingam massage are types of massage made by a masseuse with her whole body. The breasts, bottom, thighs, legs, hands, with feet flat on the customer’s genital area.

On the site you can see the ladies available every time with a photo gallery with real pictures, a few words of description, age, experience, services and massage techniques performed by each one. All you have to do is choose the desired combination.

Our massage salons provides professional, high quality services since 2000. Among our clients there are politicians, businessmen, tourists and local people with above average incomes, all of whom agree that we are a five-star brand.

All masseuses are qualified for therapeutic and relaxation massages, are lawfully employed and own medical tests to date. Besides legality and safety we have made sure that each of the 30 girls to be beautiful but in a different way so that each of the clients retrieve ideal masseuse.

The lounges are decorated in oriental style, each room represents a a different area, each one is handmade by an interior designer. The colors, the music, the details,the materials are carefully chosen to create a state of relaxation. Everything is sanitized after each client so that you can relax without a care. Each parlor of the three that we have is centrally located in Bucharest, in elegant villas with own parking, air conditioning and approvals from state institutions.

If you want to benefit from relaxing or erotic massage in the comfort of your home or in your hotel room, you can choose desired masseuse from the gallery, make an appointment and the chosen masseuse will reach you within 30 minutes or at the appointed time . When it has reached the masseuse will have a badge and the invoice and of course the goods needed for massage. All you have to do, if you want, is to open a champagne bottle, choose some beautiful music and take a shower. Showering you can also do when the girls is arrived, together with it.

If you have not experienced before an erotic massage or a relaxing massage performed by a beautiful nude masseuse, if you want to see another joy of life we recommend you to visit our salons and to schedule a meeting.

Will be more than massage. It will be a unique experience, an adventure!

10 Health Benefits of Sex You Need to Know About

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The health benefits of sex go far beyond the bedroom or the couch. Having sex is actually very good for you, in ways your probably never knew before. If you are looking to increase your immune system and maintain a healthy weight, then you might want to consider having more sex. The health benefits of sex are not just anecdotal; they are backed by scientific evidence. Below, I have listed 10 of the most important health benefits of sex.

10 Health Benefits of Sex

1- Sex Reduces Stress Level: A significant health benefit of sex is that it decreases your blood pressure and overall stress level. Studies have confirmed that the more frequently you have sex, the lower your diastolic blood pressure.

2- Sex Burns Body Fat: It has been documented that a half-hour sexual intercourse burns approximately 85 calories. As a reminder, one pound of fat equates to 3,500 calories; this means that you can lose about a pound of fat for every 42 half-hour sex sessions. Sex is a great form of cardio and should not be underestimated, as a good way to lose or maintain weight.

3- Sex Increases Immunity: According to scientific research, the more frequently you have sex, the higher your levels of immunoglobulin. Immunoglobulin is a fancy word for the antibody responsible for protecting you from getting colds and other infections.

4- Sex Makes you Breathe Better: Researchers found that having sex frequently (twice or more per week), helps reduce men’s risk of fatal heart attack by 50 percent. Sexual intercourse makes your heart healthier.

5- Sex Increases Self-Esteem: Based on findings from sex therapists and marriage counselors, couples who have sex report that having good sex boosts their self-esteem.

6- Sex Lowers the Risk of Prostate Cancer: According to research, when young men ejaculate frequently, they have a lower risk of contracting prostate cancer later in life.

7- Sex Promotes Intimacy: Having sexual intercourse and orgasms boost the level of oxytocin in your body. Oxytocin is a hormone that helps humans bond and trust one another.

8- Sex Decreases Pain: A rise in the level of oxytocin (mentioned above), triggers a release of endorphins in the body. Endorphins help reduce pain.

9- Sex Strengthens the Pelvic Area: When you do Kegel exercises during sex, you experience more pleasure, and strengthen your pelvic muscles at the same time. Kegel exercises involve flexing the muscles between your anus and genital.

10- Sex Makes you Sleep Better: The oxytocin released during orgasm helps promote sleep. Now women should understand why guys tend to sleep right after sex.

Final Thought

Cardio and strength training exercises help you perform better in the bedroom. You should always include high intensity interval training routines in your weekly workout program.

Kodjo Hounnake is a home fitness enthusiast who believes the average person can get and remain in great shape right at home. You do not need expensive gym equipment to achieve the body of your dreams. Your body weight is sufficient enough. See the hundreds of home workout videos on my fitness blog at http://Kodjoworkout.com

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